The Uncomfortable Truth
A topic dear to many especially men that struggle to create success in their life, and bitch about modern day women’s drive for finding a wealthy husband.
I’m gonna break this down in a way that hopefully lands and sticks to your consciousness because frankly I’m
tired of broke men complaining about women “only wanting men with money” “what about love?” They say… well my little lizards listen up,
Let’s take a moment to reflect together…
For many women today, love and partnership are about so much more than romance. While love is the core and beauty of connection, women are often guided by an innate desire for security, support, and partnership that can sustain them through life’s vulnerabilities such as motherhood and birth.
In today’s modern world, women have achieved great levels of success, financially, intellectually, socially and with inner fire of creation women are simply amazing from their softness to their strength. From their ability to love furiously, and destroy swiftly. Women hold the key to procreation and are still the reasons why most men do what they do in their life.
For a woman, the feelings of LOVE are naturally evoked through consistent connection, sexual bonding and emotional vulnerability & safety. If a woman spends enough time with a man who can provide her the basics of listed items, she will naturally become loving. It’s nature, it’s attachment theory. It’s how women work.
It’s not a secret that women don’t necessarily fall in love with the hottest guy. Mom used to tell me “Men love with their eyes, women love with their ears.”
Beauty & looks are for the male point of attraction, for women - we look at your character & deeper aspects of your self-mastery. We listen to your words and see if your action matches aka integrity.
Especially when we are looking to procreate and expand into a family unit.
Our innate search and filter system it’s rooted in a deep, ancient wisdom — the understanding that stability and resilience are crucial for nurturing not just the relationship, but a future family aka survival, primal,
For men, love can feel like the reason to reach out, pursue, and connect deeply. But for many women, love interweaves with the practicalities of life.
To fully surrender to love, she often needs to feel safe, valued, and supported. This is why, when women choose partners, they often seek qualities that promise both emotional closeness and the grounding strength to face life’s complexities together.
When a woman considers entering a relationship, she often assesses not just her feelings but also her future. This doesn’t diminish her capacity to love — rather, it reflects her desire for a partnership that will empower her and allow her to thrive. It’s about finding a teammate in life’s journey, a partner who honors her strength and complements it with his own.
A confident, intelligent, and self realized woman will not settle for a man who lives a lower quality of life than her.
Women naturally desire MORE, to expand, to create, and to have a better experience of life, considering the quality of life that will be provided also for their offspring.
In my opinion, it is not about Love!
It’s about understanding and compatibility, Love will be created from genuine care for one another, and the enjoyment of spending time together based on shared lifestyle goals, and future life visions.
Men, instead of feeling discouraged by this, why not see it as an invitation to grow?
So, instead of merely seeking a woman's love, and acceptance, why not focus on strengthening your own foundation?
Embark on a path of financial stability,emotional maturity, responsibility, self-assurance, and inner growth. Become the man who stands tall in his purpose, driven by self-mastery. Women are naturally drawn to men who have a strong masculine frame grounded in the reality of this imperfect world. Such men know who they are and that they can take care of their Goddess, these men have a magnetic pull — men who carry strength not just in words but in action.
This is an opportunity to rise into your own potential, embodying the strength, resourcefulness, and resilience that make you proud to be a man. And for her to be proud of you!
Women seek these qualities not because they're transactional but because, in the times when they are vulnerable — carrying and nurturing life — they desire a partner who can hold them with the same strength and dedication.
Responsibility, financial awareness, and emotional resilience are the foundations that can elevate your relationship to true partnership. Embrace the challenge, expand your skills, refine your ambition. Become the kind of man she looks to not just with love, but with respect and admiration.
And so it is.
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